Saturday, September 15, 2012

Perseverate Controllers

I attended a guest lecture the previous day after class hours. The topic for the lecture was "Litigation Management". Although the lecturer seemed off topic to me most of the times, I was undoubtedly impressed with some of the points that he made.

He started off with a question, "When did the concept of litigation come into existence?". Students started brushing up their legal history memories, making vague references to various instances. Some pointed out the era when monarchs used to settle disputes, some went a bit deeper into the ancient ages of Egyptian Pharaohs and Harappan Civilizations, but he was not satisfied with any of those answers. He was insisting on going deeper into the history. A few brilliant ones took the direct shot saying, it started with the inception,  when humans came into existence and disputes arose between them. Well, that seemed too big and wispy for him to digest. Finally, he thought to give the answer himself. He walked up to the podium and flipped onto the slide which referred to ancient litigation in the age of Mahabharata and Ramayana. I had severe doubt about his assertion, but couldn't muster the courage to stand up against a guest who was enjoying spreading out his knowledge.

The crux of litigation may be dispute settlement, but litigation has certain specifications in its character that were certainly not there in those ancient times. They can be termed as dispute settlements, but I doubt if they can be termed litigation per se.

Anyway, even though he seemed a bit out of the way while explaining things he gave me a reason to mull upon. His claim of litigation in ancient times may be doubtful, but it can't be denied that disputes would be existing since the day one human would've interacted with another. They would've expressed themselves, possibly not have been able to talk, but must have made each other understand their opinion about something. They might have gestured, squinted or done something else, no one can be sure. But when I try to put myself into that condition, and imagine how the situations would've been at that time, it feels as if I've reached the core from where the whole concept of litigation would've egressed.

Interaction. Humans are social animal. These are certain concepts that inhume the possibility of any person to live in isolation. They seem to be claiming the importance of interaction, highlighting its positive side and its inevitability. I won't go to the extent of denying this, because it will seem to have gone beyond the normal conceptions and credibility, but would certainly like to say that everything is not so goody when it comes to interactions and socializing. While interactions have brought peace, they've also been the reason for disputes. In fact, the arguments that claim interaction as an agent of peace should realize what actually caused the need of that interaction. Where did it start from? No doubt, the answer is gonna be some direct or indirect, clear or ambiguous, behavior or action, which were nothing but manifestations of interaction itself.

So, we did something at the start and it has stretched a long way, ramifying in multiple directions, getting extremely cobwebby, and what we do now is trying to control, regulate and manage this cobweb which is so confusing and unending that our whole life is spent in the same.

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Philosophically Subtle

The day we gain our senses, when we start comprehending the world, the rights and wrongs, goods and bads, love and war; we actually board a safari that day. Not for a hunt down, not even willingly, we do it unknowingly taking our way down the lanes of philosophies.

We start interpreting our lives, observing it, evaluating it, changing it in accordance with our philosophies. These philosophies are so intriguing that any person can spend his whole life understanding what is the exact philosophy of his life, because philosophies in themselves are neither static nor unitary. A person may be having one philosophical aspect towards one thing, while another towards the other. We adopt a philosophy once, then switch to another one, modify the philosophy to suit our ways and continue doing it throughout the course of our life. It never ends. Sometimes they remain too kiddish, while sometimes life transforming. This jungle of philosophy remains both beautiful and dangerous. A positive and righteous one can bring all forms of glory to you, while a wrong one can doom you for life. The life processes are majorly occupied by our moves towards these philosophies, while we keep trying to opt, and make best out of them, bringing as much of subtlety as possible. Something which continues forever, and never reaches the subtle mark, but still we never give up.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Not worthy


Failure is the foundation of success; success is the lurking place of failure. - Laozi

I just love this quote, not because I get them as justification for my failures, but it does make sense. How many times have you found yourself, “not worthy”? Once..twice..or many times. You think that there is a need of revamp, things gotta change. Even if not in the ways, certainly in approach.

There is a difference between losing and realizing yourself as “not worthy”. I’m not dealing with the taunts and razzes passed on by others as you fail, it’s about realizing it for yourself.

Which standpoint do you prefer?
If one loses, he can take two stands, one may be; I was eligible, I stood the chance, damn it was bad luck, hapless destiny, slimy karma, and I missed it. Another standpoint can have, I didn’t prepare well. I lacked the competency and so did I fall. It was an uninvited consequence, but the situations were certainly created by me.
The first standpoint is never going to have the realization of “I was not worthy for that”. It’ll have an instinct of being the deserving one. I could’ve achieved but the farfetched factors led me to the abyss. This concept lags a person behind in most of the cases. He finds himself suited for the conditions, thus obtaining a trivial confidence quotient. Certainly, the time has already gone, the chance has lapsed, but this confidence quotient slaps the person in his second attempt. It drives him to a comfort zone where he slacks down with his efforts. He goes passive, finding himself able of securing the niche. This immaterial realization proves to be the biggest hindrance in his attempt to fetch success the second time.
On the other hand the second standpoint flushes the mind out of self respect, drains the conceptions and varied forms of intuitions one holds for his success, and gives scope for a fresh and invigorated zeal. The realization of being not worthy is the product of loss, but a factor of gain too.

Societal take on failure
Everyone faces failures; some find it quite often while for some it’s rare. Every time you fail you would find your cynics getting over you. The scary glaring eyes would seem as ripping you apart. They will get their chance to mock you, to laugh on you, to pass on their razzes, and they will do it quite inexorably. They grab their chance with pleasure, and so do use it.
On the other hand those people who had been instilling confidence in you, used to boost you up, will go blank. Your aspirations were their expectations. Neither they will have anything for you, except those smiling condolences and solacing statements nor would you be expecting anything more. It would be your turn to taste defeat, and certainly it’s going to taste you awful.

At the top - You’re your life driver
Every action does have consequences. It’s your steer where you wanna take the consequences. I don’t say that every consequence holds the scope for a second chance, but if it has, ignite it with the sense of being “not worthy”.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Brouhaha - The taste of media

Kalmadi arrested, follows brouhaha. Journalists seek opinion of the Congress leaders trying to sensationalize the issue, attempting to click the sneaky; lame snaps of the political honchos who earlier supported him. All the mainstream media channels bring a newshour, with representatives from the major political streams, debating upon the arrest adding up to the brouhaha. Newspapers bring up storylines featuring the night spent by him in jail. How insipid the food was, how he suffered with the heat there, how he got irritated with the biting mosquitoes and the open loo issues. Media does understand the nerve of the society. It all flows from the natural human tendency to see the one in pain who deceives, irritates, fights, frowns whatever. And yeah media does that with acumen.

Kanimozhi, she is followed with a bigger brouhaha. Actually an anecdote of a sobbing father, turning up to meet her at jail with complete details in bullets of his whole trip, not leaving even the minutes in time. Starting from his ignition of the plane in Tamil Nadu till the stoppage of his Mercedez at the jail doors, media people leave nothing. Next comes the meet; wow, I loved this part really. As like media goes, "Pita-beti dono ro rhe the; raajneeti ka shaatir khiladi aaj paristhiyon ke saamne haarkar ro pada". The language greatly resembled that of Mahabharata, "Mata Gandhari apne putr Duryodhan ki dasha ko dekh kar vichlit ho padi".

Serving brouhaha, isn't an issue. The issue is of cooking the news with ingredients of crispy story telling and spicy garnishing of the sufferings. The triviality of the news stuff diminishes it's quality and cheapens people's opinion towards the agency. I don't know who would be the person still watching INDIA TV for news, I mean some real news, not a person hanging in air; living underwater, climbing building, all that stuff. It really amazes me, how this channel is still surviving and I believe the same flock to be responsible for welcoming all the crispy cooking going on in other news channels. Stop this please! You're degrading the news culture.

Revolutions in Egypt, Syria, Bahrain have furnished the capability of media. Media activism played a major role in turning the table round in all these countries. We need to realize the importance of media and are ought to use it as a transparency and accountability tool instead of competing for TRPs with senseless brouhahas.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Inside Me

Ignited with passion..spirited with ambition
There burns something inside me
Phasing itself.. it dims and gleams
It calls for..it drives me..it makes things happen..it binds me..
Its been tried through times..
With storms of pain..with moments of bane
But..it still stands..
Erect..steady....and alone..
I feel it..I need it..I guess it's the real "me"
There burns something inside me..